So going off the Alexasmom's post...
When did you find out about sex? What were you told?
Here's my story:
No one really told me about sex I figured out the concept through my own research in 5th grade. My mom did tell me things that made me feel very guilty about guys-- I have issues with it now even! When she found out me and my boyfriend were "doing stuff" that was not intercourse she told me all about how she had an abortion and how my dad didn't know about it and that it could happen to me and honestly at 13 years old that freaked me out. OR when I was actually being responsible and asking for birth control at 15 (in the sneaky way of saying how irregular my periods were and that a friend had to go on birth control for it) she like freaked out and was like are you having sex?!! so of course i lied.
I think there are much better ways to approach such conversations. I have not had sex since I had my son and that is partly because it makes me feel guilty anddd partly because I do not want to have another baby without the support of another parent.
I hope that I can talk about sex with my son in a much mroe relaxed laid back way that does not involve scaring the pants off (or on haha) him.