Feeling Alone With Everyone By my side

Submitted by GirlWithLittleA... on Thu, 10/09/2008 - 5:47pm.

Hi Everyone,
Im 17 years old but wen i found out i was pregnant i was 16. its only been 12 weeks, and so much has changed. first lifes goin good, i was headed back to school for the first day of the new school year, exciteed bout my new classes and seeing all my freinds that ive missed over the summer. then first week of school goes by and that weekend im sickker than a dog. mom gets me a pregnancy test and my worl completly changes. Teachers and students start judging and not understanding, soo school my school becomes a thing in my past. i cant even explain all the things i have gone through besides the whole family disagreements between me and the father. i trie to keep my teenage life goin but nobody gets it. i cant even hang out with the same ppl. i have to leave the room basically every 5 mins cuz someone lights a ciggerette and it makes me sick. everyone gets on my nurves because im sober and there not so in my eyes there all acting dumb which jut makes me more fepressed that im not havin fun wit them or jut makes me mad that they still all get to have fun and i cant. i have support from lots of ppl but then most of then behind my back i get to hear how much they disagree wit my disission, which i belive is not up to them. I feel like i need someone that knows exactly wat im going through but as of right now i have no1... wad should i do? if u have some help or great advice u can email me at
maisie_gilman_lovesyou@hotmail.com
it would be ever so kind.

‹ bben thru this once but i feel like i never have Im in the hospital :( ›
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I strongly recommend looking
Submitted by boigrrrlwonder on Sat, 10/18/2008 - 2:22am.

I strongly recommend looking for a group for pregnant and parenting teens in your area. The one in my area offers both a weekly group as well as a free childbirth education class and doula program. It can be huge to meet others who are going through the same stuff.
During my pregnancy, my family strongly pressured me to relinquish my child at birth when they knew I wanted to parent. After I gave birth, everyone became much more accepting of my decision.
Hope that helps and welcome to Girl-Mom!

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You are gonna get nasty
Submitted by new_mom on Sun, 10/19/2008 - 4:48pm.

You are gonna get nasty stares and whisper and some are gonna be hard to ignore but I agree withe PP about joining a parenting class to help and we are at girl mom are always here with answers for you to your question so dont be shy sweetie

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if it helps....
Submitted by tmom3204 on Mon, 11/24/2008 - 1:17pm.

When i read the first few sentences of your post i kinda almost got chills because you sound like your feeling like i did when i was 16 and pregnant ...and then turned 17...and then the family wasn't treating me like they should have, then everyone at school, friends...etc...they all play like its so cute (or whatever)that i'm pregnant, but i either felt left in the dirt sometimes because everyone was partying and having their fun....or saying things(anything hurt my feelings at that point..lol) behind your back and they didnt realize what i was goin through nor did they care to try to be FULLY supportive like real friends should be......right? Well everything i just wrote above is what i had to deal with...and trust me...i dealt with it and stuck it out and i have never been so proud of an accomplishment in my life...so hang in there and i dont know how your situation is now, but if you would like any advice or anything to help you through (if you are still having a rough time)let me know because your story sounds so much like mine. and you mentioned you wished someone who has been there could help or whatever....just hang in there and stand tall because it's all worth it

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